The place to be when you’re a wom(b)an or mother with a lost identity through chaos and kids. Let’s get traditional, go back to our roots and leave the matrix.
Who are you outside of motherhood?
I am a wife and a mother of 8 children. With each pregnancy and bringing my children Earth side, I became a new mother, a new version of myself, an evolved woman (I like to say wom(b)en, as a reference to our womb space, the uterus, menstruation, magic and cyclical living but this does not exclude women who have had hysterectomy or have never been pregnant) who also lost some of her own identity along the way.
When you remove the titles such as ‘mother,’ ‘wife/partner,’ ‘employee,’ sister’ and ‘friend’ and even your name, etc, do you actually know who you are as an individual? On a soul level?
I didn’t. I was lost, overwhelmed and tired from managing everyone else’s needs but my own. My menstruation was just a bodily process instead of a spiritual one. I felt disconnected and tired alot.
I felt like I was suffocating from mundane routine, chores at home, school runs, sleep deprivation and I started to resent the life I had willingly created. Mothering got hard the more I lacked control over myself, my own needs such as emotions and natural rhythms. I was swimming against the tide rather than flow with it.
My relationship with my husband was also a strain. We were both tired from work and the children started to sense our stress and would play up. Sibling rivalry is common but children are like little sponges. They learn by example and feel energy much more than adults. They’re receptive from birth (and over time the system tries to erase that).
Something needed to change and fast. What did I do? I learned to better manage my time as a mother, find my true calling in life, unlock unlimited wealth as a woman (without trading all my time for miniscule money) and I integrated simplified cyclical living into my daily life. This has allowed me to be less stressed, be more in tune with my soul and body and also attract the perfect clients looking for my services (which came naturally to me after learning this) and now I help other women do the same! I am not a gatekeeper for success, I share it with you. And oh boy, having 8 kids and a marriage, I needed to do this for ME.
You can love your children and still dislike being a mother sometimes.
This is so, SO common but not many women will talk publicly about it. It diesn’t mean you’re a bad person. There seems to be a shame with modern society that once you have kids, you have “made your bed, now lay in it.” Not helpful having those kinds of comments - I’ve experienced them.
Losing your identity is what is causing this problem. When you have lack in your own life you you start to suffer. Your light becomes dim and you start to procrastinate with the “I can’t be arsed” mentality. Let me just say that procrastination is NOT about being lazy. It’s a coping mechanism. When you start to feel down your motivation drops your creative flow stops and you begin to attract the sh*t you don’t want - including narc relationships and unwanted health issues.
You’re a mother by title and you care for the little people that you created by supporting their lives and soul journey until they’re old enough to fend for themselves. The same as when you were little and needed adult help. Your life is still your own to a degree (much more when the children are older) and so is theirs. The life you have yourself is separate (you’re own soul and beating heart) - therefore you still need to provide for yourself.
The soul side of things…
When are born, we have amnesia. Bringing your own children in Earth side means you’re supporting a new life and soul contract until they’re able to find their own aligned potential in the world (and to also provide your babies and children with nurturing, love, warmth and wisdom).
Growing up I knew I was ‘different’ - I didn’t fit in at school. I knew about some of my past lives, I had an uncanny interest and connections with Ancient Egypt and my genetics link me back to my ancestors who were Italian Gypsy Roma and Gujurati Indian. It made sense to learn this information and innerstand why I have the gifts and talents that I do. Each life we have we can carry over these traits which is why you may wonder how your or your child can do particular things naturally without being taught. I also have connections to Emily Wilding Davison - the famous suffragette who died when she jumped in front of the King's horse. I’m still investigating this exciting link!
Do you know about any of your own past lives and/or genetics? Family lineage? As an adult you’ll have more freedom to find this out. I am able to guide you with any astrology or numerology aspects.
In the UK the law states that a child becomes an adult legally at 18 but as humans we are always needing support and love no matter what age - including yourself. Do you need a nudge in the right direction? Some support? A starting point?
What do you currently do for yourself that makes you feel good? Minus anything that involves other people (includin mother/wifehood).
What makes you lose track of time? What talents come naturally to you? What ideas do you have often and any hobbies? Are you happy and financially free?
My purpose is helping you find that out, then creating a plan or a ‘map’ on what you can do with all the information we have discovered about you. A birth blueprint or soul plan. I also help women learn and connect more with their personal menstruation cycles - things which school does not teach but should.
My Life Purpose Coaching skills have allowed me to successfully help women discover their gifts, what they naturally embody and how to build an online business using their voice - and be paid for it without exchanging time for money. Especially women who are ‘stay at home’ mothers.
What I do and what I stand for.
Simply put, I am a wise woman and witch (eclectic path not Wiccan although I have Wiccan knowledge) and transformational teacher through my soul and human endeavors. I teach what schools don’t. I follow no curriculum based on government standards and we do not do any cookie-cutting strategies here.
I teach and guide with an open mind, use intuition, inspiration and magic. I have worked with over 900 clients around the world with my psychic, intuitive gifts (which you have too).
I believe in the power of wom(b)en, our womb space (portals for life), our minds and our use of words (sound frequency and spelling aka spells).
I understand energy exists even when the human mind can’t see it or we are told it’s an ‘unproven science.’
I believe alternative medicine is actually the original medicine and I feel deeply connected to my ancestral roots and a more traditional way of learning and sharing wisdom. Cyclical living which is made convenient is also important.
I believe in a creator, God, The Universe, Source, whatever you would like to call it. There is infinite magic in everyone born but ‘they’ (specific world agencies beginning with G that start wars) do not want you to know this.
“But why would they do that?!” I get asked this a lot. If you don’t know who you are, how will you know where you’re meant to be going (as a soul having a human experience).
By this I mean in terms of freedom, success and enlightenment outside of ‘the system.’ By staying cooped up in a generic box and being the same as everyone else (following the herd) you won’t thrive and become the best version of yourself - you higher self. Everything becomes limited including your intuition, imagination and money flow.
By being the best version of yourself you become a leader not follower and your eyes become wide open to the scandals of those in power. It is much easier for ‘them’ to have us dumbed down, following a masculine timeline, than having millions of self made millionaires, freethinking, helping one another and who want to bring their unique gifts to humanity and also have organic, enlightened children.
I help change the lives of women and mother’s who want to find their identity and life purpose, work on their own unique message and gifts and then move on to create financial freedom with an online business, perhaps as a stay-at-home Mum, doing what they LOVE with ease. One of my signature programs, The Mother: Survive to Thrive teaches this. Learn to better manage your time as a Mum, find your true calling in life and unlock unlimited wealth as a woman. Doing it all outside of the system/matrix.
My skills & certifications…
Fully certified in: Crystal Therapy, Life Purpose Coaching, The Law of Attraction, Indian Head Massage, Diploma in Equine Studies, Diploma in Wicca & Magic (although I’m not wiccan) with some Akashic Record knowledge, Starseed Origins and chart reading, Numerology, Astrology and Birth/Natal Chart reading for love, career, life, purpose and wealth/finances.
I am also a medium with clairvoyant, clairsentient & clairaudient abilities from childhood. I have read for over 900 clients from around the world and have excellent feedback (see my Etsy store The Effervescent Moon (UK) for reviews and more information).
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